This week’s message is about feeling a lack of confidence. There is a feeling of rejection, things not going as planned, and your ego taking a hit. Yes, it sucks, but beating yourself up is not the answer.
Your guides are saying you are not seeing things as they are. Your tunnel vision is stopping you from seeing the bigger picture and your nervous system needs to make meaning, so your default is self blame. If you can blame yourself then you can fix it. That’s not how this works though. There’s a reason something didn’t work out, but you can’t see that yet. Feel the feelings without being mean to yourself. How you speak to yourself will make a difference in how you cope with this loss or rejection. Your ego is hurt more than you are. Let your ego learn how to cope and sit in the discomfort of not having control.
Your core belief of not being good enough was triggered and my gut is telling me it’s because it’s time to work on your worthiness. Your confidence is being affected because you need to learn your value and understand where your confidence comes from. It’s not external, it’s internal. So figure out how to hype yourself up. Your guides and angels are around you and cheering you on, but you have to tap into that realm to feel it. Find things that make you feel good. Is there a hype up mix you have that gets you in a good mood? Is there an outfit where you feel your best? Can you take a walk and get out in nature? Can you reframe how you’re saying something so that you aren’t putting yourself down and/or making the situation worse? Remember, misery loves company so it will try to keep you down, especially if you’ve isolated yourself. Get out and be around people. Connection is important to get yourself out of a hole. If you don’t want to actually interact with people then go to a grocery store, a park, or somewhere people go but you don’t have to make conversation. You will feed off of that collective energy and have some form of connection.
This is temporary as are all feelings and emotions so try to remember as much as your lack of confidence is trying to seem permanent, it’s not. If you need a hype up woman- I’m your gal. Here to support and help you find your spark and your purpose so book a session if you are feeling lost, down, and/or need a jumpstart.
